Can a Quaker child play laser tag?

“It can be scary to trust children with independence. But kids are better problem-solvers than some people might think. When my son, at age 10, asked me if he could play laser tag with friends, I asked him how he could avoid pulling a trigger (in deference to the Quaker value of pacifism). He decided to serve as referee. I was proud of him for exercising “discernment,” [a] Quaker value, all on his own, for listening to his “still, small voice within” and letting it guide him to a solution that satisfied his need for belonging.”

— Gail Cornwall, 2025
Quaker journalist

Give children the opportunity to listen to the still, small voice.

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  • Gail Cornwall is a Quaker writer based in San Francisco. She writes about education, psychology, child development, and has worked as a higher education lawyer and teacher, among other roles.

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