Become for Each Other the Presence of God

“[We need to] rediscover the possibilities of a friendship in which the deepest areas of experience may be shared. Certainly that kind of openness seems to have existed in earlier generations among a group who were very significant in the life of the Society. Until this century it was not uncommon for Friends to travel in the ministry, following a real sense of leading in this direction. Often they went out in pairs, one older, one younger. 

The study of their travels shows, I think, that their friendship became one in which they could open to one another their struggles and failures, their hopes and visions, when they became for each other the way through to the presence of God. On their journeyings, too, they met with Friends in their homes, seeking times for worship and prayer together, sometimes with whole families, sometimes with individuals. In this way they shared help on the inner journey with those with whom they met.”

— Christopher Holdsworth, 1985 (source)
Quaker historian

Notice who is the way through to the presence of God for you.

How do you nurture your close relationships?

What do you need from them? What do you have to give? Is there a connection between the love you feel for others and the love you feel for Spirit?

Share your response!

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  • Christopher Holdsworth

    Christopher Holdsworth, was a Quaker professor of medieval history and an author. His PhD dissertation was on the Cistercian monastery at Forde Abbey. His research interests focused on religious life in the twelfth century and he became the leading scholar on St Bernard of Clairvaux.

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