You Are Not Responsible for Others’ Happiness
“Each of us is responsible for our own actions and our own reactions. We are not responsible for someone else’s actions and reactions. This is very important for women especially because most women have been taught that they are responsible for the happiness of everyone in their family. They are taught that all family unhappiness and discord is their fault. But responsibility rests within each individual.”
— Alice Wiser, 1985
Quaker peace and women’s rights activist

Today’s Invitation
Release yourself from the responsibility for others’ happiness and release others from responsibility for yours.
This Week’s Query
When have you been spiritually “mothered” or “mothered” others?
Do you believe caregiving has an inherent spiritual quality?
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Alice Wiser (1937-1995) was a Quaker and had trained as a social worker and psychological counselor. She dedicated the last ten to fifteen years of her life to both peace and women's rights. Wiser was instrumental in organizing the peace tent for the second United Nations Conference on Women held in Nairobi, Kenya in 1985. After the conference Wiser continued to organize around these issues, traveling around the world to interview women and talk about peace.
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