Embarrassed by abundance

Wendy Swallow: It [occurred to me] that focusing on my blessings all the time could render me smug if I didn’t watch myself. When I thought about all I have – abundant food, comfortable shelter, a loving family, security – it’s more than a little embarrassing, especially when there are so many people struggling with war and hunger and illness and fear. I’m not sure I should be celebrating my blessings every day; it feels self-serving.

Kristin Winford: If it’s truly gratitude, I’m not sure if there is a dark side. [Everyone] has the opportunity to access gratitude, no matter where they are in life. […] I think gratitude pairs well with humility; it counters that smugness or arrogance you mention. I also think it’s important to recognize gratitude most importantly for those things that are not possessions: family, friends, relationships, community.

— Wendy Swallow and Kristin Winford, 2024
Members of Reno Friends Meeting

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Authors

  • Wendy Swallow

    Wendy Swallow is a Quaker author and the clerk of Reno Friends Meeting.

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  • Kristin Winford

    Kristin Winford is a member of Reno Friends Meeting, and a regular contributor to their blog on Quaker topics. She works as a forester, managing National Forest lands.

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