Why sitting in silent worship is more important now than ever

Hello dear readers!

Welcome back to our Daily Quaker Message emails! After a summer hiatus, we are excited to be back in your inbox daily.

This month, we explored the theme of Quaker Silence. Why do Quakers incorporate silence into their worship? What are we doing in that silence? What are the potential opportunities and challenges of this form of worship?

In a time of increasing division and concern over the direction of our country and the world, it might feel superfluous or insufficient to spend our time sitting in silent worship. Most Friends I speak with are feeling that action must be taken, and soon.

But what action? This is exactly the moment to apply our nearly-400-year-old practice of waiting on the spirit to guide us, because out of that deep consultation has emerged—time and time again—clear-hearted, bold and consequential action. Grounded in the clarity of our inward guide, and with love in our hearts, we can move mountains.

This has been my personal experience: many of the ideas that have evolved into leadings for me originated from a spark that I experienced during the sacred space of Quaker meeting for worship. Silent worship inspired the music I wrote about Early Quakers going naked through the streets of 17th century England. And it inspired the idea for the QuakerSpeak youtube channel, which I founded in 2013 and has guided over 5 million Quakers and seekers around the world. This project—the one you are reading right now—also emerged out of the silence.

The idea for the Daily Quaker Message came to me while I was sitting in the silence of a meeting for worship, contemplating the spiritual needs of Friends and seekers. It was like Paul McCartney’s experience of writing the song Yesterday—the idea seemed so clear and fully formed that I assumed it already existed and had to google it to discover the contrary.

I’m so grateful for all the many Friends along the way who have encouraged these leadings, who have supported this spiritual calling to build a thriving religious society of Friends in the 21st century, and who have participated in these projects to make them the rich and inspiring resources that they are.

Beginning tomorrow, Maeve is back in the editor’s chair with the theme That of God in Everyone. Many Quakers frame our spiritual commitment based on this idea, and we will spend October exploring the origins, theology, and fruits of our understanding that there is that of God in everyone.

I hope the Daily Quaker Message continues to nurture your spiritual life and the life of your spiritual community. Thank you for following along, and for holding us in the light as we continue to find the way forward with this important work. 

In the Spirit,
Jon Watts
Founder and Executive Director, Thee Quaker Project

How do you use silence outside of Quaker worship?
What role does it play in your daily life?

I use about an hour of silence early each morning as a way to settle an overactive and anxious brain, to practice gratitude for the things that are going well and gratitude for those things that are not going well. I use the time in quiet to think about my place in Creation and my role as a steward (farmer and father) and plan those things that improve the piece of the Earth that I am fortunate to watch over.

Lars P., Tamworth, NH, USA
My initial response was "Silence is without ceasing" much as "Prayer is without ceasing." An extremely difficult practice, and I fail constantly, but one which still remains an active desire. Throughout the day to take each moment, each conversation, each interaction as an act of "listening" to the spirit and acting as if "Thy will be done on Earth" was my prayer in action.

Tom S., Lino Lakes, MN, USA
I rise early, usually between 4:00 and 4:30 a.m. The silence in the house is so comforting. It allows me to be mindful even whilst making my morning coffee. To be silent, mindful, and open to the sounds of my small town gradually waking up instills a calm and appreciation of this glorious creation we call home.

David T., Elgin, TX, USA
Mon Sep 22

Silence outside of Quaker meeting

“The essence of the value of silence, for Quakers as well as for monastics and others, is to free ourselves from influences other than from God. Silence, then, can open ourselves to God and let us truly listen to the Living Christ.” …
Tue Sep 23

What Quakers do in the silence

“Many religions include short moments of silence in their services, but for Quakers, silence is the heart of worship. The room goes still as we let go of everyday busyness. Individuals may rise occasionally to share a message out of the silence, but for the most part quiet reigns. And yet, inside our heads, thoughts dance and twist about. As anyone who has tried to meditate knows, silencing one’s thoughts can be a challenge. Everything from grocery lists to worries about loved ones parades through the mind. Sometimes the procession makes a clatter; other times, a steady whisper of thoughts. But either way, it can be hard to settle.” …
Wed Sep 24

Everyone present contributes to Quaker meeting

“Every member of a Meeting, whatever his formal status […] contributes to the Meeting. Sometimes this contribution is spoken; generally it is silent.” …
Thu Sep 25

What undergirds Quaker worship

“Underlying and undergirding the unprogrammed worship of Friends is prayer; the prayerful corporate waiting which takes place in any meeting when it has centered down. As we go deeper and deeper, prayer is our task as individuals and as a group.” …
Fri Sep 26

“These stuffy old Friends are really talking sense”

“I read that I was supposed to make ‘a place for inward retirement and waiting upon God’ in my daily life, as the Queries in those days expressed it. At last I began to realise, first that I needed some kind of inner peace, and then that these apparently stuffy old Friends were really talking sense. If I studied what they were trying to tell me, I might possibly find that the ‘place of inward retirement’ was not a place I had to go to, it was there all the time.” …
Sat Sep 27

How Quakers use a “moment of silence”

“Besides its symbolic connection to the practice of silence in Quaker circles, even a short moment of silence is a useful practice that can be used throughout the day to stay physically grounded and awake to your own surroundings.“ …

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  • Jon Watts

    Jon Watts is a Quaker media creator and spiritual entrepreneur. As a songwriter, Jon toured the world sharing stories of the Early Friends and his own spiritual journey growing up in a Quaker intentional community and attending the Quaker Leadership Scholars Program at Guilford College. Jon’s unique success promoting his music in the early days of Youtube led him to found the QuakerSpeak project, for which he spent six years traveling, interviewing Friends, and publishing a video every week. In 2021, Jon embarked on a new journey: envisioning a future for Friends and online media. Jon Watts is a member of Central Philadelphia Monthly Meeting, which holds his ministry under its care.

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