Why sitting in silent worship is more important now than ever

Reader Responses
How do you use silence outside of Quaker worship?
What role does it play in your daily life?
I use about an hour of silence early each morning as a way to settle an overactive and anxious brain, to practice gratitude for the things that are going well and gratitude for those things that are not going well. I use the time in quiet to think about my place in Creation and my role as a steward (farmer and father) and plan those things that improve the piece of the Earth that I am fortunate to watch over.
Lars P., Tamworth, NH, USA
My initial response was "Silence is without ceasing" much as "Prayer is without ceasing." An extremely difficult practice, and I fail constantly, but one which still remains an active desire. Throughout the day to take each moment, each conversation, each interaction as an act of "listening" to the spirit and acting as if "Thy will be done on Earth" was my prayer in action.
Tom S., Lino Lakes, MN, USA
I rise early, usually between 4:00 and 4:30 a.m. The silence in the house is so comforting. It allows me to be mindful even whilst making my morning coffee. To be silent, mindful, and open to the sounds of my small town gradually waking up instills a calm and appreciation of this glorious creation we call home.
David T., Elgin, TX, USA

This Week’s Messages
Mon Sep 22
Silence outside of Quaker meeting
“The essence of the value of silence, for Quakers as well as for monastics and others, is to free ourselves from influences other than from God. Silence, then, can open ourselves to God and let us truly listen to the Living Christ.” …
Tue Sep 23
What Quakers do in the silence
“Many religions include short moments of silence in their services, but for Quakers, silence is the heart of worship. The room goes still as we let go of everyday busyness. Individuals may rise occasionally to share a message out of the silence, but for the most part quiet reigns. And yet, inside our heads, thoughts dance and twist about. As anyone who has tried to meditate knows, silencing one’s thoughts can be a challenge. Everything from grocery lists to worries about loved ones parades through the mind. Sometimes the procession makes a clatter; other times, a steady whisper of thoughts. But either way, it can be hard to settle.” …
Wed Sep 24
Everyone present contributes to Quaker meeting
“Every member of a Meeting, whatever his formal status […] contributes to the Meeting. Sometimes this contribution is spoken; generally it is silent.” …
Thu Sep 25
What undergirds Quaker worship
“Underlying and undergirding the unprogrammed worship of Friends is prayer; the prayerful corporate waiting which takes place in any meeting when it has centered down. As we go deeper and deeper, prayer is our task as individuals and as a group.” …
Fri Sep 26
“These stuffy old Friends are really talking sense”
“I read that I was supposed to make ‘a place for inward retirement and waiting upon God’ in my daily life, as the Queries in those days expressed it. At last I began to realise, first that I needed some kind of inner peace, and then that these apparently stuffy old Friends were really talking sense. If I studied what they were trying to tell me, I might possibly find that the ‘place of inward retirement’ was not a place I had to go to, it was there all the time.” …
Sat Sep 27
How Quakers use a “moment of silence”
“Besides its symbolic connection to the practice of silence in Quaker circles, even a short moment of silence is a useful practice that can be used throughout the day to stay physically grounded and awake to your own surroundings.“ …
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