Children and Quakerism
May 2026: Quaker community is intergenerational, and welcoming children of all ages into our spiritual community is a joy. This month has messages for parents, grandparents, aunts and uncles, teachers, members of worshipping communities – anyone who spends time with children. We read about the joy children bring, caregiving through hard times, how children experience spirituality, and knowing when to step back to allow children to grow into their wholeness.
April 27, 2026
Children have a divine spark
“Something of God comes into our world with every child that is born. There is here with the newborn child a divine spark, a light within.”
April 28, 2026
What is unique about Quaker parenting?
“Quakers are good at respecting the rights of the individual, knowing they are human beings at all ages – not acting as if they become so at some point in their lives. Whilst, as older, supposedly wiser, people, we have suggested, refused or insisted – we always explain; even if, in desperation, that’s been ‘Because I’m the parent – trust me!’ There are boundaries and rules set from a mutual expectation of trust and reasonableness.”
April 29, 2026
Parenting as prayer
“When I go up to kiss my sleeping children and linger with them, in quietness and love, that is prayer. There is a wordless unity of God, myself, my children, a sense of gratitude and reverence, awareness of my need for strength, shame for my failings, a promise to try again.”